We have all seen or heard it before. Women are always accusing men of cheating on them. Sometimes they are right, but most of the times they are wrong. Not only are they wrong, but it gets tiresome hearing them complain that we are cheating when we really aren’t. It is no surprise to you, women cheat. They do it just like men do. We would like to think that we are monogamous, but this really isn’t the case. We are animals, animals with a desire to spread our genes. Women cheat for different reasons. Us men cheat because we want to pass on our genes. We want to pass along our family line.

This is common in the animal world. A woman cheats because she wants the best partner she can find. She only wants to bear the child of someone who has the best genes. This is true in the animal world and it is true in the human world.

Just because we have the ability to walk on two legs and use our thumbs to hold tools, doesn’t mean that we aren’t animals. We still eat meat, hell some of us still eat raw meat. We go out in nature and hunt and fish. It should be no surprise that we are still animals.

There are ways for you to tell if your woman is cheating on you. Don’t make the same mistake that she makes… Don’t accuse her of cheating every time she is away from you. Unless you have some hard proof, hold your breath. Here we will show you how to tell if she is cheating so you have the hard proof you need.

We all know that women tend to get more lax regarding the under clothes they wear after they have been in a long term relationship. They wear stuff that they feel is comfortable and not what she thinks will turn you on. If her closet looks like the outfits that you would see women in a nursing home have, you already know what I am talking about.

If she suddenly starts to wear sexy panties and bras, that isn’t good news. Sometimes women will wear special under clothes from time to time to turn you on, but in a long term relationship that rarely happens. If she is always wearing hot panties and bras, that is a good sign she is cheating. If she wears the type of things she wore when she first met you, I would watch out.

How is your sex life? If she stops having sex with you, then you know something is up. Use common sense here. If she is having her period or not feeling well, then of course, you won’t be getting any sex. But, if she has a ton of sex appeal and she isn’t interested for a long period of time, that is a sign. It is a sign that she is getting her sexual needs met by someone else. If this is the case, dump her right away. This not only is wrong to you, but exposes you to diseases. She might not care about you, but you need to care about yourself.

Do you feel that your relationship is a long term one? How does she react to that? Does she blow it off, or even worse laugh? If she does, there is a good chance she is cheating. If she is cheating, she has no need for a long term relationship with you. Why would she need to? After she gets her fill of you she will dump you for the other guy.

Does she argue about anything and everything? Does she bitch at you about anything and everything? Does your breathing get on her nerves? This can be a sign that not only your relationship is about to end, but she is cheating. She will treat you like shit because she feels that way about her cheating. A woman’s personality can be as thin as an onion skin.

Unless you are blind, you should be able to pick up this one. If your woman is spending more time that usual away from the house. If she is never home, she has to be some where. If there is a valid excuse, for example she has to take care of her ill mother, don’t get alarmed. On the other hand, if there is no reason for her to be gone long periods of time, then something is up. If it is worth it to you, you can hire a private investigator to see what she is up to. Also, a friend might do this for some beer money. Try to get photos of her with her other lover. This way when she says that she isn’t cheating, you can throw the pictures right into her face.

If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating on you, sniff her clothes. If you smell a cologne that isn’t like yours or an unfamiliar scent, something could be up. Make sure she hasn’t been hugging her father or something like that. Take a whiff, if it smells like a man and there is no reason why should be smelling that way, she could be cheating.

Men and women both cheat. That maybe a surprise to some, but not to most of us. No man should put up with this kind of behavior. You need to dump your cheating woman as fast as you can. Don’t ever take a woman back who has cheated on you. She will do it again and again. Stand up for yourself, you are the only one that will do it.

By Peter James

Most women think men are immature. For the most part, they are right. Us grown men still like to play sports, video games and other child like things. This is because of how we think. We aren’t always as serious as women pretend to be. Men enjoy competition. We go through this our whole life. It starts when we are little kids and we throw baseballs with our dad. We grow up playing sports, then we grow old and we get into the job market and we have to find a mate. All of those requires you to compete. So, all of our lives, we end up doing this. Women don’t understand this.
This is also why they tend not to succeed in business like men do. They lack that drive to succeed, to compete. It is like a game. How many women CEOs do you see compared to men? There is a big difference in numbers.

On the other hand, there are some really immature men. Every time I watch Animal Planet, the men on the programs make me think of adolescent boys. They all act like if they seen a pair of tits they would have a heart attack. Maybe it has something to do with animals, hell I don’t know. I can’t stand to watch more than ten minutes because of this.

When a man acts immature, it doesn’t mean they are lazy or a retard. Sometimes people can have emotional problems. Sometimes being abused as a child can have an effect on people. There is so much bad shit that happens in life, I am surprised if anyone can walk away sane from it.

If you have problems that stemmed from the past, I wouldn’t beat yourself over the head about it. Instead, I would go to a therapist and talk to them about it. They will help you deal and cope with everything that has happened. If you don’t have the money, try either getting government assistance or try to find a place that makes you pay on what they call a ‘sliding scale’. This means, they will base how much you have to pay on how much money you make. Chances are it will be much cheaper and you will be able to afford it. If you have no money at all, you can go and talk to a minister for free. Most of the time they will be happy to talk to you and give you good advice.

Even though we might feel immature or down, there is no reason to go around pouting 24/7. We don’t like when our women do this, so we should keep in mind they don’t like it when we do it. If you are doing this, you need some help. You are trying to get pity to cover up your problems. Drug addicts use drugs to cover up problems, you use pity.

You shouldn’t let mood swings get the best of you. This can happen if you have a mental illness. You get tired when your old lady has mood swings before her period and bitches you out all day long. Chances are, she hates yours as well.

There is no need to go on with life feeling this way. If you are just an immature guy because it is your nature, don’t worry about it. On the other hand, if you have problems, I suggest you get help.

If you find yourself getting depressed often or thinking of killing yourself, its time to get help. There is no need to run from it. The doctor won’t kill you when you go in. There is no surgeries, needles, or any of that stuff. They can’t even force you to take meds or come back for a second visit. Simply put, they can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do.

If you are having panic attacks they can effect your sex life. If you have panic attacks while having sex, it can be very difficult to maintain an erection. Hell, it is almost impossible to maintain a reasonable life when you have panic attacks.

If you find yourself unable to leave your house or without the desire to leave, you need to seek some help. There is no reason why you should put yourself through the horror of this living hell. Get on your feet and make the first step. It is important for you to understand that only you can help you.

If you feel like some of the things I described because you are being abused by your woman, you need to leave right away. Most people don’t believe that a woman can abuse a man, but it happens every day. You don’t deserve to be abused, you have done nothing wrong. You need to put your foot down and get the hell out. Let her ruin someone else’s life.

Money should never be a problem when it comes to getting the support you need. If it is, try to find local support groups in your area. Talking to someone is better than no one. You can go to places online and find support groups and even ones you can talk to people online. You can talk to people and they will never know who you are. Most if not all of the online support groups are free. This means you won’t have to pay any money to use them. You can go to places like yahoogroups.com and find support groups. It is a good place to start looking.

Friend, if you need it go get some help. There is no reason not to. You deserve to live a good healthy life. Don’t kid yourself, you do deserve it.

By Peter James

So finally you got the girl of your dreams. She is sexy and stunning. Every time you go out, other guys are checking her out. So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm around her, and cast steely “Don’t you mess with my girlfriend” stares at the other guys. You closely watch her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and insecurity, even at times when it is not the least bit warranted. You constantly call her up to check up on her or count the seconds before she answers your call. You’ve been too paranoid too many times whenever she says she’s out with her girl friends or co-workers, or if she’s meeting up with a high school sweetheart or an ex-flame. You instantly erupt in jealous rage at the mention of past loves.

You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your energy to over protectiveness and jealousy instead. So, you try to buy her time and attention by overwhelming her with the prettiest flowers, wonderful gifts, expensive dinners, and luxurious holidays. You want to control and have the upper hand in the relationship. You utilize the possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You always make excuses for her to be always with you, or to be available at your beck and call. Her girl friends are exasperated with you and upset at how possessive you are.

So where does all this insecurity and jealousy spring from? You may have bad experiences before regarding relationships and loyalty, and you ensure that it doesn’t ever happen again. In turn, you intensely guarantee that you are the sole object of her desire.

Male insecurity has also been known to directly correlate with a deficiency in the size of the male member. Many men are bothered that they are not big enough or they’re not gonna please their ladies with their current size. This probably explains the thriving and often lucrative business that is penis enlargement.

Another reason may be about money or resources. Many guys feel disdain, oftentimes envy, towards other men who are better off than themselves. With more money, you could probably spend lavish gifts for your girl; and with more presents, you think you make yourself highly desirable and attractive.

Men, just like women, also need to be liked. They want to be respected, adored, and esteemed. They want to be feel important and special to someone. They want to be loved and needed.

So, how would you rein in your insecurity and keep your jealousy in check? Take time to do a self-assessment. Improve your looks and learn new things. Go to the gym, join sports club, or enroll in short courses like foreign languages, arts, or even acting. More importantly, is the measure of trust and loyalty that you and your girl have for each other. Don’t let your insecurities cloud your judgment and ruin your relationships. Treat her with respect as much as you would want her to do the same for you.